Effective And Meaningful Slow Life
An effective and meaningful slow life. The most ironical thing about our modern lives is that while technology is inventing new gadgets aiming to save our time, mankind is becoming busier every day. Our lives are becoming more fast-paced and hectic than ever. Obviously, it doesn’t have to be this way. Let’s rebel against a hectic lifestyle and slow-down to enjoy the ultimate gift to mankind—life. A slower paced life means making time to enjoy your mornings, instead of rushing off to work in frenzy. Instead of always being connected to a smart phone or laptop, take some time to enjoy whatever you’re doing, to appreciate the outdoors, to actually focus on whoever you’re talking to or spending time with. It’s always better to be wise than to be wired. Start increasing your focus on single-tasking rather than switching between a multitude of tasks and focusing on none. Slowing down is a conscious choice, and not always an easy one, but it leads to a greater appreciation for life and a greater level of happiness. It’s such a wonderful investment that you will never regret it. Here’s how to do it.
- 1. Do less to get more
It’s hard to slow down when you are trying to do a lot of things at the same time. Instead, make the conscious choice to do less but with total awareness. Focus on what’s really important, prioritize your work, what really needs to be done should be done first. Put space between tasks and appointments, so you can move through your days at a more leisurely pace.
- 2. Be present/li>
It’s not enough to just slow down. You need to actually be mindful of whatever you’re doing at the moment. That means, when you find yourself thinking about something you need to do, or something that’s already happened, or something that might happen…gently bring yourself back to the present moment. Focus on what’s going on right now—on your actions, on your environment, on others around you. This takes practice but is worth some.
- 3. Disconnect
Don’t always be connected. If you carry around a smart phone or other mobile device, turn it off. It would be better if you learned to leave it behind whenever possible. If you work on a computer most of the day, have some times when you disconnect, so you can focus on other things which are important but may not be urgent. Being connected all the time means we’re subject to interruptions, we’re constantly stressed about information coming in, and we are at the mercy of the demands of others. It’s hard to slow down when you’re always checking new messages coming in.
- 4. Focus on people
Too often we spend time with friends and family, or meet with colleagues, and we’re not really there with them. We talk to them but are distracted by devices. We may be there physically but our minds are on the things we need to do. We listen, but we’re really thinking about ourselves and what we want to say. None of us are immune to this, but with conscious effort you can shut off the outside world and just be present with the person you’re with. This means that just a little time spent with your family and friends can go a long way—a much more effective use of your time, by the way. It means we really connect with people rather than just meeting with them.
- 5. Appreciate nature
Many of us are confined to our homes, offices, cars and trains most of the time, and rarely do we get the chance for outdoor activity. And often even when people are outside, they’re busy talking on their cell phones. Instead, take the time to go outside and really observe nature, take a deep breath of fresh air, enjoy the serenity of water and greenery. Exercise outdoors whenever possible, or find other outdoor activities to enjoy such as nature walks, hiking, swimming, etc. Feel the sensations of water and wind and earth against your skin. Try to do this daily and find the difference.
- 6. Eat slower
Instead of cramming food down our throats as quickly as possible — leading to overeating and a lack of enjoyment of our food — learn to eat slowly. Be mindful of each bite. Appreciate the flavors and textures. Eating slowly has the double benefit of making you fuller on less food and making the food taste better. I suggest learning to eat more real food as well, with some great spices (instead of fat and salt and sugar and frying for flavor).
- 7. Drive slower
Speedy driving is a pretty prevalent habit in our fast-paced world, but it’s also responsible for a lot of traffic accidents, stress, and wasted fuel. Instead, make it a habit to slow down when you drive. Appreciate your surroundings. Make it a peaceful time to contemplate your life, and the things you’re passing. Driving will be more enjoyable, and much safer. You’ll use less fuel too.
- 8. Find pleasure in anything
This is related to being present, but taking it a step further. Whatever you’re doing, be fully present… appreciate every aspect of it, and find the enjoyable aspects. For example, when washing dishes, instead of rushing through it as a boring chore to be finished quickly, really feel the sensations of the water, the suds, and the dishes. It can really be an enjoyable task if you learn to see it that way. The same applies to other chores—washing the car, sweeping, dusting, laundry—and anything you do, actually. Life can be so much more enjoyable if you learn this simple habit.
- 9. Single-task
It’s just the opposite of multi-tasking. Focus on one thing at a time. When you feel the urge to switch to other tasks, pause, breathe, and pull yourself back. Read more.
- 10. Breathe
When you find yourself speeding up and stressing out, pause, and take a deep breath. Take a couple more. Really feel the air coming into your body, and feel the stress going out. By fully focusing on each breath, you bring yourself back to the present, and slow yourself down. It’s also nice to take a deep breath or two — do it now and see what I mean.